So yesterday decided to go to the mall and the thrift store with my Mom and my Brother. The day turned out Great because everything that i’ve been looking for since Christmas I found all in one day, and on sale :)
I finally got stuff that i’ve needed from the thrift store. Such as, a blazer, two belts, 3 leggings/stockings, a scarf, and a shirt.
At the mall I got a purse from The Sak, and I got a spring jacket, two shirts, and a skirt from forever :) I’m very glad I went chopping with the famalam.
After all that me and my brother went to rent movies and cooked pizza and bummed around the house all night !
Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs
Law Abiding Citizen
Feels good to be home. Tonight i’m taking the Broham to my apartment, cause we’re going thrifting again tomorrow at the thrift store by my place !
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My deepest apologies to whom ever reads my blog on a daily basis. I’m sorry I haven’t been updating quite frequently as I said I would.
I highly doubt I have any readers.
But besides the emo point, I wanted to just jot down what’s been keeping me away from my lovely tumblr.
I had three exams this week. And yesterday I finished two of them :/ I don’t know if I did so well on my anthropology, but I have a good feeling I did quite alright on my Development exam.
I Just got certified to be a research assistant. That’s what I was doing last night for 3 hours. :/ DRAAAAG. BUT at least i’m finished with it, and i don’t have to do it EVER again. Also for this research outreach project I’m doing, i’ve got loads of research to do.
Make a spreadsheet
Look up organizations
Meet up with my coordinator tomorrow
ON THE BRIGHT SIDE. Tomorrow after my LAST exam of the week I’ll be able to finally relax and take a breather, because I’m going to Second City, a comedy show :) Wooo
Well I should really finish these newspaper mailings, so I can start studying and researching before I got to church, and my APO meeting.
One of the Universal Truths that lie just beyond the fabric of modern society is the axiom that geeks, along with nerds and other peoples who overinvest in intelligence but boast underdeveloped social skills, make the best lovers. Once people realize this, the sexual revolution that will sweep through western culture will make the seventies look like the fifties, and I’m not talking about wider pants. The reasons why geeks are unparalleled as lovers are simple and many:
Geeks don’t sleep around. Geeks, through their higher IQ and therefore greater understanding of the tragedy of human condition, know that the dice only seem to have more sides on the other side of the table. Hence, they instinctively stay loyal to their lovers through thick and thin. Their social skills are also not well developed enough to support an affair, and frankly, geeks generally aren’t quite sure how they ended up with the lover they have attracted. When you date a geek, you know the geek will be yours until you are done.
Geeks are good at the things they try. When’s the last time you met a geek who didn’t have some secret skill just simmering below the surface of a simple-seeming life, honed in the wee hours of the night? It could be hacking, playing video games, or the ability to insert and remove those stupid computer power plug things from drives without cursing or breaking a finger. Let sex become their new favorite late-night hobby, and you know that a geek won’t quit until he or she has learned how to hack into your brainstem through specific genitalia interfacing in parallel with general dermal and oral bonding.
Geeks are not interested in status. Geeks became geeks because they chose to spend their time doing things that would not necessarily make them popular with everyone else in school, like sports and fashion. The ability to resist peer pressure is important to a geek. This means that a geek is more interested in their or your happiness than looking good to others, which will come in handy when either (a) you need attention, in any sort ranging from the nurturing to the lascivious, and also, because both of those things are not necessarily unorthagonal dimensions, any combination of the two, or (b) you need to be rescued because it is the climax of a teen 80’s movie. Or both.
Geeks haven’t formed bad habits. After years of serially dating lots of other women, many socially successful guys have become too confident to be intimate, think of women only for sex, and don’t have any intention of letting what in their minds is “just another girlfriend” enjoy the last spring roll. Let us not even pry into the diabolical, dark, twisted, and depraved mind of the girl who has serially dated many men. None of this is true of the geek, however. The lack of past romantic partners allows the geek to approach lovers with the zest of the neophyte. Geeks are not full of romantic confidence; however, once coaxed from their emotional holes like tame bunnies, they are eager to please and enjoy their newfound relationship.
Geeks can concentrate. Geeks can focus their energy on one task with the intensity of a hunting cheetah. Granted, the task they are focusing on may have more to do with hunting orcs with a +1 Sword of Piercing rather than hunting gazelles with claws, but the fact remains that a geek, once set upon a task and given Mountain Dew, becomes a tireless slave to their goal. Put a six-pack of Dew on the bedside table and a geek between the sheets, and you have found yourself one relentless lover. When’s the last time all night actually meant all night? When’s the last time you were with someone who, if they needed more of the night, knew how to get it?
Geeks have excellent finger dexterity. Geeks roll dice. Geeks play video games. Geeks flip pages in books. Geeks type a lot, and use characters like ~ and ^ and | that no one else has any use for. Geeks use calculators in postfix notation. As a result, a geek knows how to use his or her fingers to greatest possible effect. Whether you have a button that needs pushing or a joystick that needs joy, a geek is the person for the job.
Geeks have imagination. Once you have found your amazing lover, you wouldn’t want things to become boring. That is where geeks prove their real worth. Replayability is important to the value-conscious video-game playing geek, and this translates to relationships as well. Wouldn’t you want to date someone who has created a Quake 3 mod? Wouldn’t you want to date someone who has written steamy Everquest fan fiction involving elven incest? Wouldn’t you want to date someone who wished they were Morpheus rather than someone who wished they were Barry Bonds?
There are plenty of other reasons why geeks are the best lovers around, but don’t just take my word for it. Find the nearest sexy geek and coax that person into asking you out, even if you have to do so using instant messanger. Remember: the only non-sexy geek is a single geek.
Happy Valentine’s Day everyone. May everyone spend it with someone they love. I’m spending it with my lovely roommates :) Lets appreciate the people that are they for us despite our faults, our imperfections, and our baggage.
Although Valentine’s day is a Hallmark holiday, I’d like to take it upon myself to ONLY celebrate this day to appreciate the loved ones that are still around and that put up with me. I’m so blessed to have such friends.
I’d also like to take the time to appreciate my family. They’re always there for me despite all the hurt I’ve caused them.
So everyone love who you’re with. :)
"Death you are my BITCH LOVER!" - It so happens i’m watching wedding crashers with kahts <3
I just downloaded the Tumblr App for my iPhone. Now i’ll be able to take pictures wherever I go. I’m gonna try to get in the habit of updating everyday as much as possible on what I’ve done that day, or what I see, or where I go, or who I see, or what I hear.
I’m currently sipping on some coffee, while studying up some lecture notes and my abnormal psych book because I have an exam tomorrow. This is the first time I’ve ever finished my assignments before they were due, so that I have room to study and focus :) woo I’m so proud of myself. Simply by being ahead with school and FINALLY having time management seriously just gives me the most gratifying feeling that I haven’t felt in a long time. Lately it’s always been hard work, hard work, hard work, and I see no results. But hopefully that changes with the dedication and focus that I’ve been putting in for a couple weeks now.
I’m going to the BULLS Game tonight. I’ll be sure to take a picture. I’m super excited. I’m sure with my presence, they’ll win ;)
This weekend is filled with partying and studying. When is it not? TeeHee. But Friday i’ll most likely be out in celebration for my best friend’s birthday, ROGINE. She just turned 21, and the unfortunate thing is that she’s either allergic to alcohol, or she’s intolerant to it. But hopefully we can get her quite drunk, with the minimum alcohol consumption that she’s able to withstand. On Saturday is a balance of something good and bad, I’m going to volunteer half of my day, and then go to Geisha Lounge for the rest of the night :)
SUNDAY is good ol’ Valentine’s day. I’m hoping to do chocolate covered something for my roomies. That is if I have time to go out shopping. If not, i’ll just make chocolate covered bananas or chocolate covered carrots, LMAO. Anything that i find at the apartment. Hopefully Bans will be able to come to the city so we can celebrate together.
Also what a cute website this is. I should go to this more often. The little crafts i should do when summer hits :)
SO MUCH TO DO SO LITTLE TIME :/ Why can’t time just slow done for me, just this once?
research for outreach project
take an online course, to be a certified researcher
study study study. I say that three times, because i have 3 exams next week. FML right ?
read read read read read read, and read.
work out, please ignore my fat stage. I haven’t been going to the gym because i’ve been sitting on hours end.
relax, is that even in my vocabulary for these 2 weeks ?
So how I’m spending my super bowl sunday, is being shunned from the world. Purposely that is. I’ve decided to focus on my homework today so that from Monday-Wednesday all I have to worry about it studying for my exam on Thursday.
Today will consist of
Eating Reese’s Puffs
PSCH 320 Homework
PSCH 210 Homework
Reading Asian American with Disabilities Outreach project articles
Watching Skins at the same time ;)
I do wish I was at the apartment. Being cooped up at home seems depressing that I’m not out watching the Super Bowl with my friends. But duty calls, and I’m not about to screw up my life.
Oh wonderful, mother just yelled “GO SAINTS!” Oh goodness. Alright back to homework. Biff is coming over :)
AHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA My girlies know what i’m talking about.
Anyways, the freaking weekend is about to start for me in about an hour ! But i’m guessing that my Friday night will either consist of reading articles in a borders/barnes&noble/cafe of some sort or reading my articles & studying while watching a move. That’s cool though, cause honestly I need to breathe. I feel like i should be stressed but for some reason I’m doing a-okay. I have a lot of work to do, and a lot on my plate, but i’d rather have that then have nothing to do in my life. Keeps me on my toes.
What I have on my agenda lately:
Research articles for this Outreach Project for Asian Americans with Disabilities
Alpha Phi Omega regular stuff
Alpha Phi Omega Pledge Committee Stuff
What fun! No seriously WHAT FUN ! :) I feel like if I can handle this work load, i’ll feel like i’ve learned how to manage my time in an appropriate pace, while still having fun on the sides! ;)
Just chatted up with our new student worker and we were talking about boyfriends. I told her how I set a “Single for a year” plan where lead to me explaining why. But before I get into that she goes and says, “How do you survive without a boyfriend?” and in my head i’m like, “Seriously?!?!?!?”
But in reality I told her, “No one ever NEEDS a boyfriend it’s just nice to have.” And she goes “I just like having a boyfriend at all times, so they can pay for me.” In my head i’m like this girl just keeps getting better and better. I told her that my previous relationships we always alternated and she has the nerve to say, get this, “Oh MY GOD, where have you been finding your boyfriends.” My my my little naive student worker how you’ve done it. Seriously as you get older you’ll realize its essential to have a balance and to compromise. You’re not the Queen of England now are you. Men aren’t our personal slaves, and they need to be treated with respect if you want a relationship to work. IT upsets me when women complain about equality between women and men, but in actuality they can’t talk because we’re doing the same thing by expecting men to pay at all times when we’re in a relationship. You want equality? Pay for your own got damn shit. Do women not realize that we’re just draining them financially. That’s not right. I told her that it’s satisfying to me when he buys me something, and it’s also gratifying when I pay for things myself. It’s sort of a balance. Superficial girls I tell ya.
And honestly I feel like i’m better off this way, single. But it does have it’s times where you just wanna call someone on the phone and talk for hours and hours. To have someone to call you in the morning to say, “Good Morning Babe”. Or to have someone to hold you when you’re cold, or to hold your hand when you’re not strong. I miss those, but as of right now i’m doing me. And that’s what i’ll be doing for a good long while :)
Homosexuality is not natural, much like eyeglasses, polyester, and birth control.
Heterosexual marriages are valid because they produce children. Infertile couples and old people can’t legally get married because the world needs more children.
Obviously, gay parents will raise gay children, since straight parents only raise straight children.
Straight marriage will be less meaningful if gay marriage is allowed, since Britney Spears’ 55-hour just-for-fun marriage was meaningful.
Heterosexual marriage has been around a long time and hasn’t changed at all; women are property, blacks can’t marry whites, and divorce is illegal.
Gay marriage should be decided by people, not the courts, because the majority-elected legislatures, not courts, have historically protected the rights of the minorities.
Gay marriage is not supported by religion. In a theocracy like ours, the values of one religion are imposed on the entire country. That’s why we have only one religion in America.
Gay marriage will encourage people to be gay, in the same way that hanging around tall people will make you tall.
Legalizing gay marriage will open the door to all kinds of crazy behavior. People may even wish to marry their pets because a dog has legal standing and can sign a marriage contract.
Children can never succeed without a male and a female role model at home. That’s why single parents are forbidden to raise children.
Gay marriage will change the foundation of society. Heterosexual marriage has been around for a long time, and we could never adapt to new social norms because we haven’t adapted to things like cars or longer life-spans.
Civil unions, providing most of the same benefits as marriage with a different name are better, because a “separate but equal” institution is always constitutional. Separate schools for African-Americans worked just as well as separate marriages for gays and lesbians will.
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VIRGO - THE BEST SEXUAL PARTNER (8/23-9/22) Love to bust. Nice. Sassy. Intelligent. EXTREMELY SEXY. Predict future. Loves being inlong relationships. Has lots of friends. Great talker. Always gets what he or she wants.Also not a fighter, but if they have to, they will also knock the lights outof you if it comes down to it.Cool. Loves to own Geminis’ in sports. Extremely fun. Loves to joke. Smart. 24 years of bad luck if you do not repost.
LIBRA - THE PIMP (9/23-10/22) Caring and kind. Smart. Center of attention. High appeal. Has the last word. Good to find, hard to keep. Fun to be around. Extremely weird but in a good way. Good Sense of Humor. Thoughtful. Always gets what he or she wants. Loves to joke. Very popular. Silly, fun and sweet. 5 years of bad luck if you do not repost.
SCORPIO - THE VIRGIN (10/23-11/21) Loves being in long relationships. Likes to give a good fight for what they want. Extremely outgoing. Loves to help people in times of need. Best kisser. Good personality. Stubborn. A caring person. ONE OF A KIND.Gorgeous Smile.Not one to mess with. The best sexual partners in the zodiac. Are the most attractive people on earth! 15 years of bad luck if you do not repost.
SAGITTARIUS - THE ONE (11/22-12/21) Spontaneous. High appeal. Rare to find. Great when found. Loves being in long relationships. So much love to give. Not one to mess with. Very pretty. Very romantic. Nice to everyone they meet. Their Love is one of a kind. Silly, fun and sweet. Have own unique appeal. Most caring person you will ever meet! Amazing in the you know where..!!! Not the kind of person you wanna mess with- you might end up crying! Caring and kind. Smart. Center of attention. High appeal. Has the last word. Good to find, hard to keep. Fun to be around. Extremely weird but in a good way. Good Sense of Humor. Thoughtful. Always gets what he or she wants. Loves to joke. Very popular. Silly, fun and sweet. 5 years of bad luck if you do not repost
CAPRICORN - THE SEXY ONE (12/22-1/19) Dominant in relationships. Someone loves them right now. Always Wants the last word. Caring. Smart. Sweet.Loud. Loyal. Beautiful. Goofy. Easy to talk to. Everything you ever wanted. Easy to please.Loves to smile.Beautiful laugh.Patient.Cautious.Bit of naughty.The one and only. 7 Years of bad luck if you do not repost.
AQUARIUS - THE BAD BITCH (1/20-2/18) Very high appeal. Love is one of a kind. Very romantic. Very caring person ! Entirely creative. Extremely random and proud of it. Freak. Spontaneous. Great at telling Stories. Not a Fighter, But will Knock your lights out if it comes down to it. Someone you should hold on to. 12 years of bad luck if you do not repost.
PISCES - THE SEX ADDICT (2/19-3/20) EXTREMELY adorable. Intelligent. Loves to joke. Very Good sense of humor. Energetic. Predict future. BEST kisser. Always get what they want. Very Attractive. Easy going. RARE Find. GOOD when found. Loves being in long relationship.
ARIES - THE PLAYER (3/21-4/19) Nice. Love is one of a kind. Great listeners Very Good in bed… Lover not a fighter, but will still knock you out. Always happy. Loud. Talkative. Outgoing. VERY FORGIVING. Loves to make out. Has a beautiful smile. Generous. Strong. THE MOST IRRESISTIBLE. 9 years of bad luck if you do not repost.
TAURUS- THE ONE U CAN’T TOUCH (4/20-5/31) Coldest motha fucka on earth
GEMINI - CRAVES SEX A LOT (5/21-6/21) Outgoing. Lovable. Extremely energetic. Spontaneous. Not one to mess with. Funny. Excellent kisser. EXTREMELY adorable. Good personalities. Loves relationships.Addictive. Loud. 16 years of bad luck if you do not repost.
CANCER - HARD LOVER (6/22-7/22) Trustworthy. Attractive. Great kisser. One of a kind. Loves being In long-term relationships. Extremely energetic. Unpredictable. Will exceed your expectations. Normally not a Fighter, but will if neccessary. Someone loves them right now. 2 years of bad luck if you do not repost
I am going to need you to accept me for me, rather than tolerate my being. I don’t want you to “put up” with me so if you can’t stand the things I do, you can leave. I am me and you are you. We are two completely separate people, remember that. Don’t try to change me or mold me into someone of your liking because I was not brought into this world to meet your standards. I am here because I am meant to be and so are you. We crossed paths and intertwined our souls by fate. Whether or not we are supposed to end up together is entirely out of our control. I don’t bother changing people and I expect the same treatment. I will not change unless I feel as though it’s for the better and for myself. Take me with the extra baggage of shit and I will hand you my best on a silver platter. You can’t get one without the other.
2 eyes for the back, you can never be certain who your friends are and you have to worry about yourself and take care of yourself. People who may have you in their best interest might be fooling you, so be careful.
2 eyes in the front, to guide you in the right path.
But you need your “third eye” (and then she points to her forehead) for knowledge. Always seek knowledge, even when you think you don’t need to know something, its always good to know everything you can.
Then she said God Bless and walked away. I’ll never forget her message. I feel like sometimes these people are angels with messages in disguise. We walk pass them and act like they are just failures to society, but they were all normal like we were at one point. Everyone has a story, you just have to listen.
People like this are so wise. I feel as some are disguised as either homeless, psychotic, poor, or mentally challenged. Sometimes I’m so ignorant and I ignore the people that are trying to change me for the better. I need to stop being so oblivious and open my eyes.
Love has no boundaries, and it sure as hell isn’t defined by age, gender, nationality, or distance. Why should people’s feeling for one another have to fit your criteria? Like I mentioned before, love is based on the affection you have towards your significant other or just another person in general. Not whether they have a penis or a vagina, black, white, Asian, Hispanic, or is ten thousand miles away. I’m no love expert either; this is just something you should already know. When people are truly in love, distance is the last thing on their list of worries (it should be), believe me. You have no idea what they had to endure to get this far, so who are you to determine whether what they have is legitimate or not? If anything, it’s the distance that makes the love grow stronger because you long for that person even more. It makes you wait to see if what you have is really as good as it seems because everything is just far too good to pass up. Not only does the distance make the heart grow fonder, but it also tests your limit on trust. It helps you see if you have enough faith in one another to hold on through the rockiest times. And for those of you who look down on other people’s relationship based on your closed-mindedness, realize that your ignorance will make no difference.