We’re not perfect and I understand that. But what’s difficult for me to adjust is that you’re gonna do what you’re used to and I’m gonna do what I’m used to. But now that we’re in a relationship it shouldn’t be like that anymore. I mean there are a few exceptions of course, but when it regards OUR relationship I do believe this is a team effort and it should be handled in a mature manner.
I know this is a growing experience for the both of us. I’m not saying that I have nothing to learn because I know that I don’t know everything and that I have much to learn from everything I come across. I’m also not saying that you’re wrong and what I’m saying is right, because usually it’s not the case.
I do like how we handle these things because I’d rather have these discussions ( I don’t even technically call them fights or arguments) than having a big blown out of proportion fight. I take it as checkpoints to see where we are and to discuss what we need to work on them while we’re on our way up :)